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Political decorum

As an example:
Trump tweeted (and I assume contacted the mentioned countries) and told them that the foreign aid would stop immediately if they didn’t stop the caravan.
They are going nuts stopping the caravan

Rah, Rah, Trump, winning, MAGA.
The left had fits, the right cheered……everything was great

Then he tweets that the military will close the border…..can’t do that, I know it, they know it, I can only hope that he knows it or has a dozen advisors telling him that he can’t do that.

The base, not the right, cheers. Yes he can, do it, he can declare xxx and do it.
The left says he can’t do that he is destroying the country

And the argument shifts to the Passé Cumitatas laws and Trump trying to be a tyrant vs the base screaming that he can and should or invasion and death of the country….

What about the caravan? When you’ve won….shut up
When you’re winning….win.

And don’t shift the focus onto an argument over stupid ****. The left doesn’t have to be correct, they just have to have the argument, and they can shift the focus onto the argument rather than the issue.

Many people get caught up in the moment and can’t seem to differentiate between rhetoric and actual policy decisions.
Some people choose to remain in that same moment well beyond their own interest.

I have found myself, more than once, wanting Trump to shut the hell up and just do.
I understand that he needs to keep the motivation up and the troops rowdy and voting. Sometimes he goes too far.

He has to build the foundation of “loudmouth, knee jerk reactionary” to get the results from opponents, they have to respect his gameplay. Like the caravan being stopped and dispersed before they get to the border (hopefully) moving the embassy to Jerusalem, Paris Accords, etc

He would get a lot more done is he didn’t talk so much about it first.

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A Tale of Two Friends

Cancer sucks.

Let me tell you about two friends of mine, Raul and Michael.

Raul is a good man working and supporting his family. Four sons and a couple of grandsons. He was at work and took a fall for no reason, headaches and dizziness led to a diagnosis of a brain tumor. Completely inoperable but Chemo and radiation to treat it. His doctors have given him 1 to 3 years. That was over a year ago. He will not “just stop” one day but will likely fade and devolve slowly. He has suffered badly since, and last month started bleeding from his nose with no stopping only to start bleeding from the roof of his mouth when they got his nose to stop. Last time I saw him was in the hospital waiting for surgery, to give his wife a break. It was one of the most gruesome things I have seen (and I’ve seen a lot) three surgeries in the last month. He is having trouble swallowing and his wife (God bless her) is cutting his food into small bites as he does not want puréed food. His doctors wanted to install a colostomy bag, after sitting down with his doctor to go over the procedure and care of the bag, he pats his wife on the knee and says “I’m not doing this, not to you and not to the family”

He is terminal, he can pass with a colostomy bag and eating baby food every day or he can pass a few months earlier as a man. They have pretty much closed the doors to visitors and his sister in law and wife are there. His sons rotate through and he has gotten to hold his first granddaughter. Doctors have given him six months.

We are waiting.

 

Now Michael was a great friend of ours. Best man at our wedding, a whole mess of kids and grandkids. A few years older than I, he was a retired mail carrier, Vietnam vet, wonderful man. He is the first person (other than me) to address Mercy as “Mercy” everybody else was still calling her Mya after the adoption. When I told him this, he looked at Mercy and said. “That’s your name isn’t it?” And she gave him a typical 5 year old “Yup” so he tells her “Then that what I’ll call you”…….she has loved him ever since

he and his wife had a home here and another in Florida. Living the “snowbird” life. While on the way back home to Indiana, Michael started to hiccup. At first funny then worrisome, then alarming, so they stopped at a hospital along the way. After a battery of test, and more blood tests, then x-rays, then MRI, then CT scan…..stage 4 liver cancer. Michael had no symptoms or warning and was in very good shape (you don’t walk 20 miles a day for 30 years for nothing) After returning home and consulting specialists he had surgery to remove a good part of his liver (did you know that a liver grows back, amazing) Chemo and all the other obvious treatments didn’t work and Michael started to waste away very quickly. They were changing his medication numerous times a week  when he finally told the doctor “you’re going to tell us when we can stop this, right?” And the doctor quietly said that they can stop now as it was not accomplishing anything. Michael wasted away and passed in two months from diagnosis to death. He had changed so drastically that he decided to be cremated as he didn’t want family and friends looking at him afterwords, but to remember him as he was. The service was covered with pictures and notes.

Both of these men had enough time, thankfully, to make all the arrangements and get their estates in order. Michael found a way to get to his lawyers office without his wife knowing and made on of the shortest wills in history. “My wife gets everything”

Which way is best? I don’t know. Michael was here and gone very quickly and the pain is short and hot. Raul is fading and his systems are collapsing slowly. Grinding on the family and friends over a long period of time. Difficult and prolonged.

Michael was a shock, Raul is a tragedy.

The lovely wife and I have had a lot of discussions during this time. I have told her that I would go on a milk shake and instant breakfast diet before she is going to purée my food. And she has said that she would never want a colostomy bag just for a few more months. We are big believers in prearrangement of funerals.

Talk to your wife/husband/family.

 

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Another murderous AR-15

Another school shooting, in Florida this time.

How can we allow that evil AR15 to kill our children.
We need to ban that evil AR15
We need to sentence that AR15 to life without parole.
Give that evil AR15 bread and water in solitary for life at hard labor.
No super duper extreme high capacity magazine clips visitation.
The mind control attributes of the evil AR15 must be nullified by placing a tin foil cover over the barrel thing that goes up.
Take….the….sights….away

Or we could provide our larger schools with security. Not just for shootings, there are many fights and teachers beaten and stabbed. There have been numerous sexual assaults in our schools.
The one tax increase I would support is to provide security at our schools.

I understand that the football coach who was killed was also the security guard for the school…..the unarmed security guard.

Lets change that. And we will see fewer deaths and much faster ending to these shootings.

 

We cannot have an honest conversation about guns laws until we have an……honest…..conversation about gun laws.

When the gun banning side stops manipulating numbers, slanting stories, and outright lying in order to fundraise or push a political agenda for votes.
When they concede the right to self defense and the reality that there are possibly 600 million firearms in this country and you can never confiscate them all.
When the see that criminals, by definition, will not obey laws.

Then we can have an honest, adult conversation about gun laws.

I don’t see that happening

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Presidential portraits

A long history of Presidential portraits.

very proper and statesman like. Men to admire and immulate. Here are a few, in no particular order.

Truman

Eisenhower

Reagan

JFK

Carter

Teddy Roosevelt

 

and for your viewing pleasure

Obama

as they used to sing on Sesame Street

“one of these is not like the others”

(and not because of race, damn shame I have to add that)